I don't find the calls strange at all. Why? Because you are not reacting the way that they think you should be. It's either the ow or your xh making the calls. Someone is enjoying bugging the heck out of you. Remember, just like children, if they can't get a reaction one way, they'll try another. If you remain still and quiet, you'll find out who is doing it...it just takes time.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
