OK here is the latest TM exchange that I had with WW:
This has nothing to do with OM everything to do with my controlling behavior. She just basically told me that as of now she wants nothing to do with and that she is done with me.
I told her Sorry you feel that way but I'm only trying to save our family...feel free to join me
***VERY GOOD***
Then WW said that my controlling obsessive behavior is scary and that there is no affair...he is a friend and that I'm destroying any relationship with WW that I may have.
***THIS IS WHERE IT SHOULD HAVE ENDED, WITH NO RESPONSE FROM YOU***
I am making her hate me...to which I replied: I only have love for you...to hate me is your choice
Then WW said that I have pushed her to far and she doesn't want me in her life if this is how I'm going to act...she doesn't think I want to see her happy...she has to have peace in her life...every time she is happy I knock her down...she is a strong woman and she will be successful without me
I've made it hell for her...to which I responded: your affair did that...not me...You own any negative consequences that result from your affair
WW:You are going to miss me and realize what you lost...
I told her the same thing and that we can get the good days back but it will take effort
WW: Go find someone else...someone who might like your cool earring
M: I have someone already...I've been with her for 20 years I've had a lot of compliments on my earring and I've decided that I like it WW: Then you wear it...makes me like you less
