just stumbled on this again and wanted to share for anyone lurking...the articles are very much on point.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...=199#Post566433

as for me, still trying to deal with this beast of a MLC/WAS?? (still not clear but one thing i am sure of is...WTF).

next thursday is D-day. H is taking a trip, then i leave for my trip a few days later and when i come back, unless something has changed (aka a miracle and he wants me back), our marriage will be dissolved. w/o having to go into a long explanation about why, it's a religious divorce and for my H and I, that is what we're taking as the real deal. so haven't even started the legal stuff yet. sigh.

taking all my energy to keep my sanity and PMA going in this next week.

would love for some kind words of support/encouragement/anything positive. smile