Meaningless Sex or does it mean something

[CPCajun]

That's the confusing part. I guess I see iniating, since he's the one that wanted out and all, as pursuing...which we aren't supposed to do. ???

Yeah, one of the vets could chime in on this. I get confused on when I am supposed to do something when it contradicts another rule.

I know ,when W and I were still together, there were times she would try to initiate sex, but I wasn't in the mood. She would give up easily and be angry that we did not make love. Its not that I really didnt want it(I am a guy and I love my wife, she does turn me on no matter what), but I wanted her to start it, instead of me all of the time. I never communicated it to her, and that is part of my problem where I am at today.