Well, part of it is getting to the point where you're willing to really, really, really, let it go regardless of the outcome. I've made some changes and am continuing to make some changes because they are the things I need to do in order to be a better man and a better dad.
Perhaps once the finality of this sinks in she'll change her mind. But, it's not likely.
She'll have to hit bottom..emotionally, financially, whatever "bottom" is for her...she'll have to hit it before she'll be willing to re-think this course she has set.
