Oh. I missed the part about the OM. That does change things. I only read the last few pages of posts. Need to read from the beginning. Spouses involved with OPP are a different "beast" altogher. They will SAY and DO anything to JUSTIFY their BEHAVIOR.

I agree with acting civil and cutting her off when she starts justifying her actions by saying all the "bad" things you have done. A simply reply of "Ive already apologized before" will take care of that.

PMA