It is all very confusing. For me, being a woman, it's harder for sex to just be sex. After having sex 3 times since my last post, I can say that I'm not sure how I can keep it up without being resentful. This feels all about him, not about me or us. Of course, I stated above that he was trying harder to please me and the last 2 times that really wasn't true. To add insult to injury, I felt there was no intimacy at all: no kissing, and afterwards, he just goes back to sleeping on the very edge of his side of the bed to pretend I don't exist. And while I don't expect anything else, I can't say it doesn't hurt.
Should I really continue having sex with him in hopes that it is helping keep the bond alive when he's doing nothing towards making our relationship better at all?
Of course, Cajun, you may feel differently being male. ???
I do feel differently. I always thought as sex as an expression of our love and to bond to each other. Even if it was just a quickie. The sex we had only happened once since we S. If she wanted it again I would, and not that I am a guy, but I do think she wants love expressed thru sex. It may be her way to get close to me. :Dunno:
Is it H that is always initiating sex?
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