Exposure is an ongoing activity Opti, its not jsut about running out and telling on your wife...
You bring people into the loop of what's going on, find your supporters and tag those who are tossing your marriage to the curb (don't invite them to your home after this is over.. they are idiots)...
It's not about exposing and dropping it, you keep the contacts going.. talk to those you exposed to, find out if your wife's contacted tehm... keep educating them on the subject and what they can do to help.. its an ongoing activity, not a one-shot only deal...
If her family or yours are ignorant, YOU educate them.. don't just GIVE UP on tehm.. TEACH them how to HANDLE these situations...
You can't expect everyone to be as educated and as mature as you.. MOST people are nOT taught how to respond to these social situations.. they just act on ignorance and clumsy instinct
