Ok I have been doing some reading and just about every post about moving out is a NO NO. Technically I did not move out, but I am staying in our mom in law apartment on the property. Should I just continue to stay in it or just grab everything and move back in the home. My wife is leaving for a trip this weekend and don't know if this would be a good time to do so.

Also I found these 34 rules Sandi(?) posted. I will follow these to a "T". But if I move back into the house it may make things a little harder to follow, but doable.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10