Puppy is right, I am kinda stuck, there is no one left to expose this to other than the general public which I don’t think will help any, cause they don’t give a rat’s a$$ and would probably buy popcorn to sit and watch with.
She has told her entire family that sorry I disappoint you, but I’m going to do what I’m going to do. They have kept in contact with me a lot more than her, and basically are in the ‘It takes two people in love to make it work, if we pressure her, it will just blow up again”. FIL actually had an affair, stopped it, went back to family, had a miserable existence for 6 more years until he got out completely when W graduated. Step MIL first husband had an A that destroyed her and her family, and is on his 4th marriage now.
She is rebuilding a group of friends from high school who don’t know me, and love the OM, I guess it’s called rewind or something, and reverted to partying a bit etc. She never liked any of them for 20 years, now she is trying to get buddy-buddy with all of them on FB, I guess to justify this crap.
This locomotive is flying, and I’m doing what I can to get out of it’s way, but she must figure the faster it’s done, then it must not be a mistake?
from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men" Me -44 WAW - 43 D14 D8 EA/PA mid May,2010 WAW moved out- 07/01/10 WAW filed 07/01/10