A: "I'm really sorry you feel that way. That's certainly not my intent - to be ugly."
And then make a note to yourself to make sure she either witnesses you, or hears about you, dealing very positively (even charming) with other people, in other situations.
L51, the trick to "loving detachment" is to get BOTH halves of that equation correctly. Be strong, without being a dikk.
Puppy
Right...she has witnessed me dealing positively(and charming) with other people during her EA as that is who I really am...charming and pleasant.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
