All I care about right now is preserving as much financial security as possible and preserving my access/relationship with my son.
I told her the door was closed. She can open it but I'm finished holding it open and begging her to walk through it. I still love her and I still believe we can make it through this but she has to want to and right now all she wants is a divorce.
I know you can't tell her anything. Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do, but the act of doing it can increase the desire and motivation in doing so. So as long as she is making excuses...
