I think it's OK to let go

[TimeHeals]

Journaling:

STBXW is back to sending "Woe is me" emails.

She sent one last night out of the blue saying, "You said once that you didn't think I was broken, but I feel broken".

Made the mistake of responding like this:

"That doesn't sound good. Hope you feel better today".

This unleashed some lengthy emails about her and OM and how she inadvertently pushed HIM away.

Made the second mistake of responding to those with:

"I will not discuss the problems of your affair. I am all about doing the right thing as if God himself were here watching me".

Another page long "woe is me email" followed.

Note: It's easy to think as you move forward that your spouse must be moving forward too. Apparently, this is not even close to being the case.