Until this problem is worked out between you, DON"T EVEN THINK ABOUT KIDS! KIDS very likely will make your wifes libido far worse! You need to leave open the option to LEAVE her and kids will muddy that up very quickly. If you can not straighten out your differences in desire now when there are NO PRESSURES, it will only get worse. I know, I am married to a women with absolutely no desire, and I think some of it has to do with her rotten childhood and abuse. THERE IS NOTHING WORSE THEN A WOMAN THAT DOES NOT DESIRE SEX!!
