I think its time to expose this a lot more... Opti you need to stop talking to your wife ... and do NOT ask her to help you with your car or ANYTHING...
Do you KNOW what you DO when you ask THEM for HELP?
It JUSTIFIES her AFFAIR... COMPLETELY SIGNS OFF ON IT.. stop talking to her and stop going to her for ANY HELP of ANY KIND... DETACH means you are financially, pratcially AND emotionally INDEPENDENT of her