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A sample from a profile:

My ideal relationship:

Simple version: When I hear his key turn in the door a smile spreads across my face. Longer version: Someone whose presence I enjoy being in and whose values and priorities I share, someone who perceives important situations somewhat similarly to the way I do and whose judgment I respect, and someone who makes me never want to get out of bed.

My past relationships:

That things that look good on paper often do not work out in real life, that differences in temperament can make cohabitation impossible, and that far more important than the things people have in common is how they approach resolving the things that they do not.

I am looking for a:

Let's get real for a minute and ignore all the activities and traits they mention since most of you guys just click off the whole category anyway. Once upon a time my life was consumed with raising my family and working. But I turned around for a second and all of a sudden three kids were gone leaving only one son at home. For the first time in a long time I am able to place my needs first, or at least a close second, and find myself seeking companionship. I don't have to jet set around the world though it's a nice thought, but I do have to be with someone who stimulates me, mind, body and heart. The truth be told, when the dust of the day settles I am perfectly content to curl up in bed with someone whose soul touches mine. As busy as the days are, nights are lonely. You are someone who understands that we don't need to be tethered at the hip and that sometimes a silent shoulder on which to lean is more effective than any words spoken. There is simply great comfort and happiness in being together that stems from a very deep level of caring for and understanding one another. If you wrote about the twenty sports you engage in or the importance of fine wine and dining, or the fact that you are looking for the love of your life, you are probably not for me. If on the other hand you understand that in a long term relationship the passion that begins with the flutter of the heart evolves into a deep love and appreciation for the inner beauty of your partner, then please contact me, because nothing would give me greater pleasure than sharing my life with you.

My perfect first date:

You look at least as good as your picture, you didn't lie about anything and the conversation flows with ease. (Please note: Do not say that you are 49 if you are 55 and do not say that you are 6'0" if you are 5'9" because I have a strong preference for tall men. Hopefully your pictures are fairly recent. Mine were taken on Oct. 5, 2009)

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