I didn't respond but now she is blowing up my phone 6calls.
She just sent me a another message asking me "why does it make you feel good by putting me down"
I'm not sure why she thinks I'm putting her down. She wanted this D and I'm just going with the motions now. I know she's going to want to talk when I get home.
How to I handle the R talk then???? I need you guys!!!!!!
You don't. You don't call her back, you don't respond to her texts, and when she tries to bully you into an R talk when you get home (and that's how she will act -- bullying), you simply say "I don't want to discuss this right now. You made yourself clear, and I have some decisions to make." Or something very similar.