Seeing Red, you are so sweet! I am going to take some time to study other's threads in this forum because I think it will help me see "where" I am going.
The Cainer horoscopes are amazing...thanks for the recommendation, Red! So funny because when I woke up today, I thought "my goal is to achieve indifference...I want to feel nothing...I want to pretend that there is no stbxh and only S and I...." and here is the horoscope for today! (Pisces)
"You have to put something down before you can pick something up. If you are somehow filling a 'gap' with some less than satisfactory substitute, you may never get a chance to replace it with the real thing. Sometimes, it's better to have the right kind of nothing than the wrong kind of something. Let the Solstice Comet act as your reminder to create a suitable space in your life and prove the old adage that, 'nature abhors a vacuum.' As soon as there's an absence, something positive will come rushing in to fill the void."
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
