Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

So I called the place to get a breakdown on the costs. Their Academic portion is $960/mo and the full day schedule is $1030 so that's only $70 for the 'after school care'. If she can pay $960/mo why would she care for $70/mo to decide which school to go with.

I have sent an email to the lawyer...it's always a waiting game with them.

I'm tempted to clarify the $70/mo thing with her, maybe she's thinking (or wants me to think) that there's a bigger cost for the after school care.

Geez, with what I pay her she could send two kids to the private school. So maybe I should reiterate that she can send DD to the private school since she can afford to. However, I don't think it'll be sustainable in the long term if for example I lose my job or the court (hopefully) lowers the amount I pay her each month.

As for the Ls handling this I think I may have to go that route but I was hoping DD related things we could mutually decide and agree upon but lately she's all about the money.