I'd like to think that my W email to me was genuine about her not dating/sleeping with OM. The fact of the matter is she still has some sort of R with him. The amount of betrayel that I feel makes me wonder if she were to come back to try and reconcile what would I do??????
You might be right. But in my experience in studying literally thousands of affairs, I've learned that a wayward spouse usually will admit to one level LESS than what the truth is:
- "inappropriate friendship or feelings" = "full-blown Emotional Affair" (EA)
- "we've never been physical" = "full-blown Physical Affair" (PA), or sometimes it had BECOME physical, but they've temporarily cooled it, either voluntarily or due to outside pressure
