Drop the rope. Period. Stop contacting him about the post(if he donest want it, it's not your problem), about how you feel, about what is going on. STOP. He is too far gone right now and he keeps you "there" with his insensitive "I love you s" and random communication.
You know by now you dont need him. You can still love him but you dont need him. Step back and see your life and how he controls you with his ...absence. IMO, you need to control what is going on from now on. hugs K