Ha. Yes. Common piece of poor advice here: "don't go looking for cheese in cheeseless tunnels". Unfortunately, the majority of people starting on this forum are rife with gorgonzola.

Knowledge is power. As Dr. Phil said, "you own your marriage". Better know what's going on.

Stay strong.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;