I just really feel that the bottom line here is that this is obviously no longer a marriage, and I have no desire to stay legally bonded to her.
Who knows what the future will bring... But feel now that the bridges that have been burned and the baggage that has been created is just too insurmountable for our "marriage" to be repaired.
I would just wait for her to file, and let her deal with it, but I don't really trust that she will. I think she will just drag this on.
