This is my first post anywhere. I have been lurking a long time even before registering and haven't had the nerve to post. Funny, even before I checked in here today I had decided that I would post to ask advice on a "snooping" issue. This thread just reinforced that I need to! It's a sign!
I am not going to go into details on my sitch as my H hangs out on this forum (different board tho) and I do not want to compromise anything.
I will say he has had affairs both EA/PA, paid for sex (I've been tested, I'm clean), used porn, and numerous other things. He's a sneaky, secretive cheater. We are seeing a FT/ST and he is also seeing IC. He does want the marriage, so he says.
My question today is about keyloggers. I believe he is still having contact with an (online)EA partner. Now I know that the rational thing is to request passwords and complete transparency. I get that. However, we are talking about the king of sneakiness here. If he were to share the passwords, he would just go off and create another e-mail account without my knowledge, and start all over. Sad to say, but that is how he is. Every time I have confronted him about physical evidence I have discovered it just makes him better at hiding.
I want to install a keylogger. Don't have a lot of $ to spend. But mostly, I am not tech savvy. HE is VERY tech savvy. He is not in any type of computer industry job, but he could be if he so desired. I am afraid with his accumen he will somehow discover it. Can anyone here explain exactly how hidden these things are? Could he discover it by going thru the registry?
TIA for any help/advice. I'm sorry to be here. I wish I weren't! FVF
