No, I'm not. I'm answering the question posited. Sexual intimacy is the ONE THING that separates the husband-wife relationship from all others: best friends, brother/sister, etc.
eros love vs philia love or agape love. you need all of them in a marriage but eros love is the kicker.
Where's Kalni when you need her?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.