What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

Well, I see your point, Piano....that validating him might actually be what he needs. He does want to be able to talk to her and be close. It is definitely something I wish I could have done with stbxh instead of avoiding talking to him about our R at all costs. At the same time, though, if Gatsby doesn't want him to go it could be risky! What if it is just what he needs to hear to go for it?

I think that she shouldn't bring it up for now unless he does and maybe just ask him questions about what he wants from the trip..

also their baby girl has only been here a little over a week, right? So maybe her H will feel differently at the end of the month!