More fogged-out, self-martyring, moral equivalency B.S.
A: "You can always talk to me. However, as the one person who DOES both know you best and love you most, I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass, either. You may be a good person, but you're making some horrible, destructive choices, and I'm not going to call them anything other than that, just to make you feel better. It is NOT okay to put a friendship with another man ahead of your husband, or your family."
