Just found out she already filed

[Gardener]

Romeo,
my thoughts.

Thanks blue. Here's what I'm going to respond with:


"We were going to meet this past Thu about the household stuff but you didn't.[/s] come over because you were sick. Let's meet Sat afternoon 3-4pm. if that works for you. I've decided I won't discuss or split things while DD's present- that's not a good idea.

Thanks"

and


"You'd assured me that you'd becommitted to volunteering 3 out of 5 days. and I trusted you on that. Since that's not the case anymore I would've appreciated a note saying you won't be staying with her.". In the future I expect advance notice when a note saying you won't be staying with her."

and


"I understand that you're upset however your anger is misplaced and it's not going to change anything. If I could The unfortunate reality is that sending her to the private school I would without a question but I don't have the money to send her. What is the exact cost both tuition+daycare at all these options?"is not financially possible.

Shorter, more factual, no emotionally-charged words, assumptions or unnecessary explanations, or expressions of thanks/gratitude, fwiw.