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and? do you think if I detach it will just drive him to her?

He's already there, Swimming. He's already having an affair. Detaching will SAVE YOU! Maybe he'll come back, maybe he won't. My opinion, FWIW, is that he is chicken sh!t to make a move. If he really wanted to leave you, he would have by now. Of course, there is no reason to b/c he can have his cake and eat it, too.

But the detaching is FOR YOU!!!!!

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