After I nixed seeing a "neutral" T my W woke up this morning and said to me, "Are you still seeing [your therapist]?" I said, "Yes." Then she said, "Do you still want to to call the other T?" I said, "Do you want to see her?" My W said she thought she was a "flake." I responded with "I didn't care for her much and I didn't like the way she spoke to me." My W used my words and said, "She doesn't have any time for us."
I feel like my wife doesn't like being idle. She probably wants to see SOMEONE, and I found it interesting that she asked if I am still seeing my therapist. If she would see my T with me, my T gives us the best chance at survival.
My T also thinks its a good idea for me to be around her family so that they see me with the kids and how much I love them. It would contradict anything negative she might say to any of them.
Last night wasn't so bad. I ran a bunch of errands and then, after we ate Chinese take out, she handed me her leftovers to put in the fridge. Small, but a gesture she has NEVER done before. She usually took care of her own stuff and checked out.
I dunno. Again, actions give me little hopeful signs. Words...well...
