Thanks blue. Here's what I'm going to respond with:
"We were going to meet this past Thu about the household stuff but you didn't come over because you were sick. Let's meet Sat afternoon 3-4pm if that works for you. I won't discuss or split things while DD's present- that's not a good idea.
Thanks"
and
"You'd assured me that you'd be volunteering 3 out of 5 days and I trusted you on that. Since that's not the case anymore I would've appreciated a note saying you won't be staying with her."
and
"I understand that you're upset however your anger is misplaced and it's not going to change anything. If I could send her to the private school I would without a question but I don't have the money to send her. What is the exact cost both tuition+daycare at all these options?"
That's it for now.
Thoughts?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again