Puppy, Coach...advice..anyone...Need a quick answe

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Incidently, I feel connected to these two from their call names, i am Greek and coach so many sports but I digress.

Cheers!

I am going through a similar feeling as you in that the ball is not in our court, but they do not hold all the cards, Most of them but not all. You must detach at this point; especially since there is another Person involved. I know how much it hurts to want something so bad and feel that you have little control but that is why you have to focus on the control that you do have.


I think there is only one way to look at this. If you detach and truly get a life, they will do one of two things. They will either not care in which case you have your answer that there is nothing left to save, or they will take notice and start to come to you. If that happens, this is the tricky part. How do you let them back without being too vulnerable where they can sense it. Then they feel like they have control again and the cycle of the game continues.



Bottom line I think at this stage is to stick to your guns when you say something. Other Women means there can be no marriage;
period. You are too good to share them.

I do support you as many on this board do, but you have to take a stand soon and show him that you mean bussiness.

Very good advice, Swimming. Take it!
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