back on topic - snooping is a necessary evil if you suspect somthing is afoot - i would probably still would not have found out and busted the A my W was having if not for snooping her cell phone....
so these are fine IMO
1. to verify initially whether or not there is infidelity involved in your sitch, so that you can attack it appropriately
8. to verify no-contact once no-contact and transparency have been agreed to as part of reconciliation.
Gman
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
