Naturally WW accused me of being controlling and I consistently reminded her that I'm doing what needs to be done to keep this family together and protect it from outside predators and WW is free to join me in rebuilding our family.
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WW still doesn't get the concept of a boundary and refers to the boundary as an ultimatum. I reminded her that I never said she couldn't be "friends" with OM or not contact him...I said that if you continue to contact OM then I will leave this marriage. What you do is YOUR choice but you will own the consequence for crossing the boundary.
