One thing to note...I've noticed that when I have coupled my "standing my ground" and "bad news" emails with happy niceties about how I'm doing.... my xw ignores the uncomfortable stuff and focuses on the happy joy stuff. So, I've resorted to not letting her know how I'm doing at all and just being neutral and all about business.

I get better results that way. Oh...dont forget the "respinse requested" phrase.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08