I would be upset too. Especially the rude way he treated you when you let him in YOUR house! I mean, he should have been more respectful to you while there. Maybe he was upset that he hadnt heard from your D yet...maybe like SA said....the consequences of his actions are starting to get to him.
I would write the email too, but I would also have to think, would it do any good especially since you have both discussed this at counseling and he still isnt respecting your wishes...
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10