Anyone here have experience with the DB coaches? I am thinking about getting one to help me pull all of this together. It's only been 2 weeks since she filed for D, but 5 months have already passed since this whole thing started. I can't really afford it right now, but sometimes I think it is my only chance.
Last night I thought a lot more about some of the things she has told me. I have apologized for so much, but I think dday is right above when he says I have to stop defending myself. I have continued to disagree with ther that I have been selfish, even though I probably have. She says it was selfish of me to skip events like week-end movies, going to the beach, etc. with her and the kids. Those were things I never really liked to do, but I should have done them anyway.
She also told me a few months back that I made her feel used sexually. Like an object or possession of mine rather than my wife. That she felt like a piece of meat. Although she never said "no" to my advances, looking back, I can see how she could have felt that way. Do I bring these things up now and apologize to her for them? Or should I wait for her to bring them up before I say anything. I don't want to wait too long, but I don't want to be too late either, which I may already be.
