MY stbxw acted just like this when she was hitting me up for money so she could get an appartment.
Being nice talkin kind of flirting then a couple of days later you know if i had a 2k i could get an appartment bs .
When i told her no that we have a perfect house and i will not support you leaving or home. She blew up i think that is what your wife is looking for !
she is working the O/M into the stich .
She even told be if i couldnt help her out with the money she would have to move in with O/M To be able to have a place to stay.
You know she is now living with her mom and the O/M is still living with his parent att 33.
Sounds so familar.
The weight thing she was probley looking for you to say something positve because the O/M does.
Agree with ALL of this. ^ Pretty typical "script"; my wife did much the same things.
