He called to tell me that wife made love to him last night and as soon as they were done she wanted to go to the bar and meet up with some single girl freinds.
He told her that he didnt think that it was a good idea that she went out 11 pm at night to go out and hang out with a girl freind on a sunday night. "BOUNDRIES" yes.
he and i talked today they are going camping with SIl bil fil and mil. he can only go for the weekend so he is going to have a talk with fil and bil Away from wife and sil to tell them whats going on and get more support.
I think its a great idea. They have all told his wife how bad she has been acting because SIL infomed them.
He just thinks some one on one time to talk to them and let them know that he is fighting to save his marrige and family.
Then when he gets back he is going to take his wifes grandmother out for lunch and ask her not to watch the kids for her when she does go out with out him. That he needs her help to set up boundries for helping her act like a wife and a mother.
I allso told him sence the phone bill goes to grandmother he needs to start getting the Call logs from her so he can keep an eye on the Wife. He pays the bill so i dont think it will be a problem.
Grandmother told his wife that you have a good man and your throwing every think away so we belive she will help out on this.
Ok she asked cousin how come he is making so many changes,he told her that i was giving him advice. That ive lived the hell that he went through etc.
Saturday night she texted me with his cell phone and acted like him asking if i had any more advice about their stich.
Ok i new it was her because cousin does not use happy faces when he texts. I said hi B whats going on and what is cousin up to well 10 min later i get a text from her how did you know it was me?
Then she procedes to invite me out with them . I said thanks butt no have son and dont feel like going to the bar.
Another funny thing his wife texted me yesterday and wished me a happy fathers day.
Then she texted me today to let me know she got a new phone number.
Cousin called and said she said she needed a new number so O/M cant call her.
I told him that he needs to still keep his gaurd up that some thing is just not sitting right.
He wanted to know how long it is going to take to get back on track and i told hem probley sevral months.
What you think on this one Allen???
Me 37 Waw 32 son2 bomb 8/11/09 O/M 12/25/09 Divorce filed 8/25/09 divorce finale 6/16/10 Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10 Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10