Hey, that's OK. I understand. I vent to myself a dozen times a day if I can't vent here -- it's all so maddening. Since my bomb was dropped, I'm doing better, but my latest feeling is an overwhelming sense of betrayal: having to deal with a sudden WAS JUST ISN'T RIGHT.
I'm venting too (gotta do that sometimes). There's just something SO wrong about a spouse deciding to walk away when there are young children involved and there are no acute problems in the marriage (ie, abuse, addiction, etc.)