OK here is my story

[Resilent]

Wow Sandi you hit so many nails on the head. To clear up a few things when I said "runs" yes I meant fire runs, Although I have been running and working out like crazy. Certanly helps with the Stress. Look pretty good to. I very much feel that alot of our problems stem from me not standing up to her. She even mentioned in a conversation yesterday that it has always bothered her that I let her discipline the kids when they were younger. Which is true but whenever I tried she would always crowd me out of the conversation. Fathers Day was interesting. I had to work my part time job from noon to six. I had been at the station the night before so when I got home at around eight thirty everybody was asleep and they stayed that way until I left to do the part time thing about eleven. there was no sign in the house that it was fathers day. Every other year there always has been. The house looked good with a bunch of my laundry she had washed folded and neatly put in a stack. Well anyway after I get to work I get a text message from her saying that they did not realize that I had to work so that why there was nothing for me when i got home. She stated that the kids wanted to take me to dinner and that my daughter was going to bake me a cake. Thats all great but it struck me as strange that this person who wants space is texting me for my kids when they are perfectly capable of texting me themselves. I then sent her a text telling her that I was going to take the kids to Carabas at 7:00pm and that she was invited to come. She called me and sounded like she said that she would , gave me that impression anyway. I tried to be rather forceful in telling her that she should come with us and also stating where we were going and at what time. Trying to loose that weak guy syndrome. Well at the last minute she backed out and stated that she was going to go to dinner with her dad. I said fine have a good time we were going to carabas which we did. So I felt good about all that. Later that evening we had a long very calm talk,about alot of things including seperation and divorce and the effects it has on kids etc. This morning when I got to the station she texted me this " I'm so sorry this has all happened. I'm so sorry I've hurt you. I would give anything to change it all but i know it can't. I just needed to say that." I never responded to her. Over the course of the next three hours she sent three more messages basicaly asking if I got the first one. Then she finally sent this "I sent you a genuine from the heart text this morning and now your not speaking to me. Thats just perfect". I replied that I haden't texted her because i was busy working and had not had time to do so. She replied "OK Sorry" To me this all seems like such odd behavior from someone who has no feelings for me to be repeatedly texting me. Sandi I have more to say about your last post but I've got to go to bed. I wish this BB had a spellchecker on it!