Thank you for your success story of finding a great guy, figgeroni!
And Mrs. A, I was hoping my approach was going to result in saving my marriage but glad to hear the posts helped you anyway! I get strength and comfort from reading others' threads (i.e. "lives") so I think we all just help each other without realizing it!
Another friend of mine said he thinks forums are like "halfway houses" for helping people get through the trauma. He said he hasn't posted on SI (the other forum I initially joined) for months because he doesn't feel the need and said he thinks that is probably typical for us when we start to thrive and accept our sitches. Makes sense! BUt I am grateful to the people who visit and come back to give updates. I will!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004