Miss H, You XH really needs a good beating, for real! I hate people that try to bully others and act like an arse. I understand you not taking my advice, but I do think women need things to protect themselves. Many women in this Country are killed every year by psycho's like your XH. I hope that judge does throw him in jail for not paying you. Jail might be a nice wake-up call for him! LOL He might meet a guy named Bubba that could show him a new way of living, if you know what I mean! LOL