Well, she offered to come over to my place, then proceeded to tell me we never had anything in common, she doesn't want to try, and she isn't going to stop being with other guys even for a little while for me.
She said the only reason she told me she wanted me back was because she was sad, and it had nothing to do with me, and after she talked to me that night and told me who she was seeing, and realized I didn't "hate" her she felt 100% better... But has no desire to be with me again.
After hearing this, I told her I wanted her to leave and she got really mad for "making her come all the way out here for nothing"... It was her idea to come over!
I am just so hurt and amazed at how she is able to treat me with absolutly no concern for me at all.
The resentment you mentioned is really starting to creep in.
I just have to go completely dark before this woman destroys me.
I really just feel so awful right now.
I think I need to break down and admit I need some IC.
kon please for the love of god go dark man. I'm speaking from experience. I wish I would have went dark and left it alone for awhile. The hurt is tremendous. The pain I feel is just astounding.
You're tormenting yourself man. And the resentment and anger and hurt can consume you.
She's enjoying getting a rise out of you and pushing your buttons.
Just go dark for a little while at least until some of your resentment and anger settles. and by that i don't mean for a few hours or days.
Take a step back. Every interaction you are having with her is making your anger, hurt and resentment grow.
She's flaunting her OMs in front of you and loving every second of it.
trust me dude I know how it feels............
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
