Oh BE, I know there is a principle involved here; right from wrong. But, he won't hear it; if he knows then he doesn't care. He probably still loves you deep inside and maybe his leaving is his way of protecting you. Who knows?

I advise keeping dark, cutting off as much contact as possible and continue with your GAL.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim