I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

weird! I copied and pasted the link but it didn't work! I clicked on the one from page 5 of my thread from Snodderly and it did work.

ok another vent--my friends and family just want me to accept this already and be ready to date. They don't understand! I told them the dangers of rebound dating. I also said that I was just given the papers 7 days ago. I think it's because I have been separated for so long.

One of my friends thinks it will help me accept it faster if I demonize stbxh. I refuse to do that- pity is better for me and the person I am. (not that people who demonize their exes who cheated on them are bad, but I am not good at getting angry at people).

So tonight I changed the drop off a little- instead of letting stbxh put S in his crib, I just took him from him at the door and told him I will put him to bed from now on. He seemed choked up, but who cares! I told him about S pictures on Wed and then said goodbye. We talked for 30 seconds. Get used to it! He still has a key to the house so I heard him lock the door behind him when he left. At least he has been ringing the doorbell (well, he has S ring it) when he drops him off instead of letting himself in.