MLC with a side of infidelity

[Optimust]

I do know from 5 years ago when I went through this, that when I finally came to grips with the idea that snooping only hurts me and my ability to get closer to my W, and quit doing it, that I was able to distance/detach the most.

I will probably remove any type of snooping tools I have so as to not be tempted this week. Those feelings I get from some of the stuff I find cuts right to my core, and also discourages me from continuing the proper path to get through this the healthiest way for myself and DD's.