BH, I like the way you think! In all honesty though, I don't know if that will be a smart move for me. Although I agree with you that he doesn't get it. That is why my brother and I were trying to get him arrested. He needs to learn that he can't bully me around and get away with it.
Was, I never got an order of protection against him before as I never wanted to subject the children to exchanging them at the police station. But I think now it is time. The police even said so. He understood why I didn't want to do it before, but they say for my safety it will better that way.
Fig, I don't know if we have a place like that here. I will have to check that out as an alternative. I was thinking the same thing, if I did have to meet him at some place he will more likely be on time.