Exposed finally,,limbo land

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OK - I bypassed the bad part of TM, just sent one saying I hope DD has fun, and that I need her to help me early Friday morning to drop a car off for service. She will wonder why nothing about the house. I did see that her cell called a Realtor/rental place a couple towns away, but opposite direction from OM.

I got some good stuff on detachment from MLC thread, and will try to get that ball going at full speed, the more detached I am, the clearer I think and the more I can organize my plan. I'm doing pretty good on GAL also which includes a couple big 180's.

I will start looking for those articles. I did e-mail her one after she took DD14 to that concert and OM was there, so I know she got that point deeply. It spoke of the damage done by one parent pulling adolescent in, and asking them to lie and cover up stuff for them, and the pain it causes later in life.