Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys!! G, I hear you Alice is the best isn't she???!

Figs, thanks I totally know what you mean and that's what Alice and others have said too and who am I to argue with the Stanford and Harvard people

OK guys so I need help interpreting what she wrote about schools. OldFool's words are ringing in my ears about you can't negotiate with her, she will only show she wants to negotiate to get her ways and if not she'll go to court. Now I may be OK with DD going to the second school in my city but based on her last paragraph it sounds to me like she's saying it's either the private school or she's going to push for the school in her city? So it'd be useless to agree to the other public school? Is this the point where I need to say 'this conversation is over, see you in court'

Two, I'm also OK paying the same cost for the daycare that I would have to pay at a public school but again if I even go down that path it'll make things even more complicated and quite frankly I don't think she will be able to afford the private school year after year.

If the case goes to court they'll decide in favor of the public school there's no question about it. I think she knows that and that's why she said she'll push for the school in her city. I sent my lawyer an email asking if the court will take into consideration DD's family house vs. STBXW's rental house which could be getting sold soon and see the house as something more stable and the fact that I'm a high income earner vs. her?

Notice she said her 'doctor' also recommended the co-parenting deal...I've had serious doubts that she's bi-polar and it's gotten worse over the years. Of course, she never told me anything other than that she's been on ADs since college. I'd never met anyone who's been on ADs this long so I never paid any attention but it makes me wonder.